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Celebrating 20 Years!

We recently passed a milestone…our 20th wedding anniversary! I have heard from several friends who passed that same milestone and they did nothing special to celebrate. That made me sad. I really like to celebrate important dates/achievements/completions/milestones! We decided 10 months ago that we would celebrate by going to Paris! We had both been to… Read More

Keys to Fighting Fair

1. Replace “you” statements with “I feel” statements.2. Don’t say “You never…”, “You always….”, and “I told you so…”3. Don’t dredge up the past in the current argument.4. Really listen.5. Don’t say things you’ll regret later. (accusatory things).6. No name calling or cursing.7. Watch your body language (eye rolling, etc).8. No disallowing the other person’s… Read More